Rest in peace Rupa.

She was sweet. She was beautiful. She was of good nature. She knew how to keep others happy. She never hurt anyone in short span of her life. She was a sister like to me as she was the friend of my younger sister, just a class senior to me. A good student of her class. And as sweet was her name. Rupa.
I woke up today and did what I do on the regular days. I was lucky enough to have a glimpse of the special person not so early in the morning. I was feeling the emptiness in my life like always with the thought of one and only when I decided to call home. Soon it was ringing on the other side. Mom picked up the call after few rings. Something was terribly wrong with her I felt. She was almost crying. I asked but words were not seeming like to come out of her mouth. My dad took the phone over and my niece tried to calm her. I asked dad about the reason. He said and I was shocked. Not a word came out of my mouth too. I forgot to react. Suddenly I went more sad and at the same time full of anger.
A sweet and cute face flashed in front of my eyes. She was no more in this world. Rupa is no more with us. Some monsters killed her last night and threw the dead body somewhere in the pond. Why? How can someone do this to such an innocent girl ? Everything is still unknown. Whatever the reason is, no reason can be big enough to kill any person. Her husband was involved in this, my dad said and I fumed almost. I know that bastard. I felt to go right away and teach a lesson to that bloody monster. (Sorry for the language friends but such people deserve to get abused, slapped and many more worst. They should be hanged till death.)
They were just married couple. Last year, june 17 they got married to each other. Theirs was a love marriage which was arranged by both the families. When I heard about it, I told my sister that boy is not good enough to get married to a girl like Rupa. The problem with these good sweet girls is, they get trapped very soon in the words of bad guys and good guys never can get attention of these girls. Anyway, they were married before I could do anything. Still I was not expecting this to happen.
I called my sister. She was at Rupa's place, all in tears. The dead body is now with the police and the murderer is in police custody. No matter what is gonna happen with that monster, nothing can get the girl back. They can't get the daughter back to the crying parents.

It's hurting. Whatever us happening with girls is all shamefull. Sometimes they kill the baby girl before the birth. Sometimes they kill them because of dowry. Sometimes they rape and kill. And sometimes for many other reasons. In the country where we worship goddess, we are doing these shamefull too. I wish, I could prevent these all. I wish I could save them all. But the world is too big to be seen by my eyes.
Sometimes I think that my imaginary world is far better than the real but fake world. At least I can not let anything bad happen to anyone in my world. I wish this world will be a better place to live in near future.
R.I.P Rupa. I wish! you could be with us forever.

Holi for me

Holi is round the corner. Its the festival of colors as we all know. Holi for me too meant only for coloring the faces of my friends until a white face gets black. We used to find the white or colorless faces and make them black unnaturally. And no one had the guts to refuse us coloring their faces.
And then we got busy. We friends were no more together. And you know, playing Holi alone is not a good idea. Slowly I lost every interest in colors of Holi. Never got such environment again to wake up all the Holi heart. Though I was never away from celebrating this festival without colors. I always tried to fill some colors in every ones life. I tried to make the sad ones happy everytime.
The meaning of Holi has changed for me over the past few years. Its been almost 9 years I played the colors. Now i try to help people in need if i can. I try to make new friends. I try to make people smile. I try to erase the distance between two people. if they are enemies then I try to turn the relationship into friendships. And believe me these small things make me very happy. You may also try the different type of Holi celebration. This way you can save water also.
Anyway, During this day is more special for me. I do wait for the day to arrive to a special person in colors. That person loves to play with different type of colors. And I love to see her that way. Almost white face goes black. And that smile trying to hide behind those colors. Tomorrow will be again the same visuals in front of me. I pray that she keeps smiling always.
I never said that I hate colors. But now the situation is different. I may start coloring the faces and the reason will be that inspiring face and my friends who goes black every Holi.
Anyway, Happy Holi to every one. And a special wish for the special person and her family.Spread some smiles this Holi.
At last,
     "Ye rang bhi berang hai Jo tu yahan na ho// teri muskurahato se ye rangeen hai jahan"
Happy Holi to every one and Family.

और कितना बलिदान?

हर साल ८ मार्च को महिला दिवस मनाया जाता है. लेकिन आज, हमारे देश में महिलाओं की स्थिति देखकर मेरा सर शर्म से झुक जाता है. हज़ारों सवाल उठ खडे होते हैं जिनका जवाब नहीं ढूँढ पाता मैं. क्या महिलाओं का सम्मान बस किसी खास दिवस तक ही सिमित है? उनकी परिस्थिति के लिए क्या हम जिम्मेदार नहीं हैं? और जो कुछ भी आँखों के सामने आता है, बस शर्म से झुक जाती हैं ये आखें.

हमारा देश हमेशा से नारी प्रधान रहा है. ये वही देश है जहाँ सीता जैसी नारी ने जन्म लिया तो माँ दुर्गा ने राक्षसों का संहार भी किया. ये वही देश है जहाँ हम आज भी माँ लक्ष्मी, माँ दुर्गा, माँ सरस्वती या माँ पार्वती की पूजा करते हैं. ये वही धरती है जहाँ अपनी जन्भूमि को भी माँ का दर्जा दिया गया है. तो फिर क्यूँ हम उसी माँ की प्रतिमूर्ति पर लांछन लगाने से नहीं चूकते? क्यूँ आज हर दिन किसी न किसी नारी का अपमान हो रहा है? क्यूँ हम उसी माँ के किसी और रूप को आदर के दृष्टि से नहीं देख पाते? क्या यही हमारे संस्कार, हमारी संस्कृति है? या फिर हम अपनी मानसिकता खोते जा रहे हैं?

शायद हाँ. हम अपनी मानसिकता खोते जा रहे हैं. हम दिन से दिन बीमार होते जा रहे हैं. हमारे सोचने समझने की शक्ति खोती जा रही हैं शायद. हम भूलते जा रहे हैं के ये वही माँ है जिसने हमे जन्म दिया और पाला. ये वही बहने है जिसकी रक्षा की कसम हम खाया करते हैं. ये वही दादी या नानी है जो हमें किस्से सुनाया करती हैं. ये वही नारी है जो अपना सबकुछ त्याग कर हमारे सुख दुःख में साथ देती है. और ये वही नारी है जिसकी हम रोज पूजा अर्चना किया करते हैं. आज हम उसी मान या बहन या बीवी के साथ बदसुलूकी कर रहे हैं. हम उसी जननी का अपमान करते हैं. और ये सब करते हुए हमारी आखे सरम से झुकती भी नहीं. क्या ये अच्छी मानसिकता वाले लोगों का काम है. हरगिज़ नहीं. हम खुद को इंसान कहते हैं, अरे हम तो राक्षस कहलाने के लायक भी नहीं. रावन एक राक्षस होते हुए भी अपनी मर्यादा जानता था. सीता माँ का अपहरण करके भी उसने कभी गलत नज़र से नहि देखा.

छेड़ छाड या गंग रेप जैसी घटनाए तो ऐसे आम हो गयीं हैं जैसे के हमने कभी सभ्यता सीखी ही नहीं. कोई निर्भया बलिदान दे देती है और हम इलज़ाम लगाते रह जाते हैं. जुलुस निकालते हैं सरकार के खिलाफ. हंगामा मचाते हैं. और फिर भूल जाते हैं. नेताओं की तो बात ही छोड़ दो. वो तो यहाँ भी अपने मतलब की निकालने से नहीं चूकते. बलात्कार या हत्या जैसे मामलों पर राजनीति की रोटी सेकना तो कोई हमारे नेताओं से सीखे. हिटलर  से कम नहीं हैं हमारी सरकार. शांति के साथ प्रदर्शन कर रहे लोगों पर भी लाठिया बरसाती है. और जहाँ तक हमारी क़ानून व्यवस्था का सवाल है तो उसमे इतने छेद हैं के कोई भी अपराधी आसानी से बच निकल जाए. तो आखिर जनता जाए कहाँ? अपराधियों को सजा मिले कैसे? हमारी माँ और बहें सुरक्षित कैसे रहें?और हमारा समाज बदले कैसे?

मुझे बड़ी ग्लानी महसूस होती है जब समाज के रक्षक ही इन घटनाओं पर अपनी उल जुलूल प्रतिक्रिया देते हैं. कोई कहता हैं के शादी की उम्र घटा दो तो कोई कहता हैं टीवी चैनल्स बंद करवा दो. सारे किसी न किसी तरीके से अपनी कमियां छुपाने में लगे हैं. तरस आता हैं मुझे इनलोगों पर जो अपना दर्जा बनाये रखने के लिए अपनी गलतियों को किसी और के सर मढ देते हैं. यहाँ तक की हमारे बाबा लोग भी अपनी टिपण्णी देने से नहीं चूकते. हम खुद को मर्द कहते हैं. क्या ये है हमारी मर्दानगी? क्या बलात्कार या गंग रेप जैसी घटनाये हमारी मर्दानगी दर्शाती हैं. या ये हमारी कायरता दिखाती है. अगर हम किसी नारी का सम्मान नहीं कर सके तो लानत है ऐसे मर्द कहलाने पर. शर्म से डूब मारना चाहिए ऐसे लोगों को जो अपनी मर्दानगी इस तरह जाहिर करते हैं.  

कहते हैं व्यक्ति ही समाज का आइना होता है. और सच भी है. व्यक्ति से समाज बनता है न की समाज से व्यक्ति. हम समाज को इलज़ाम देने के बजाए खुद को बदलने की कोशिश क्यूँ नहीं करते? हम बदलेंगे तो समाज का नजरिया बदलेगा. आज अगर हम नारियों का सम्मान करना शुरू कर दे, हम अगर उनकी रक्षा के लिए आगे आये, हम अगर उनके भावनाओं की क़द्र करना सीख जाए. तो ये समाज जरूर बदलेगा. अगर हम अपने बच्चो की पहली हि गलती पर उसे डांटे, उन्हें सबका सम्मान करना सिखाये तो समाज बदलेगा.  हम अगर अपनों की गलती को छुपाने या उसे बचाने की बजाये उसे सजा दें तो समाज बदलेगा. और जिस दिन ऐसा हो गया फिर किसी निर्भया को बलिदान नहीं देना परेगा. और सही मायने में हम एक भारतीय, एक भाई, एक पति या एक बेटा कहलाने के लायक बन पाएंगे.

                                                            कुंदन विद्यार्थी

Our government: Running from responsibility.

I never have an interest in Indian politics. But when it comes to our country, yes I have all the rights to say for the good of our country. Not only me, but every Indian must say what they feel and whenever they need. If our government is taking a good decision we must support but at the same timeif they are at wrong and they are doing something which is not good for the country or country men, we must oppose it too. Its not just the politicians work but ours too.
A very few people take interest in the economic system or situation of the country. I personally never understood it. Thanks to news channels and newspaper that sometimes I get to read it. And I wonder about the decisions taken by the government to improve the Indian economy (as they say). May be they are right is there not any other way? I guess there is. And so called politicians must be knowing those options too but they are ignoring it. Why? Only they know.
Last time when the world crashed economically, we were the survivers. And I am not sure that this is going to be same when it crashes again as they are implementing new plans (borrowed).
From last few days I am continuously hearing about FDI's, LPG prices, petroleum prices and all. And everyday the prices of everything is trying to achieve a new height. I don't have any problem with any kind of decision provided they really improve our economy which I don't see at all. One more news that government is selling all those lands which is not in use, shame on Them (the government).
I don't understand where the funds are going so that they are in a situation to sell those properties. If they do what they say, what's the guarantee that tbe economic conditions will improve and it will remain in good position. Not any I guess. Nothing comes with a guarantee tag today.
So the question is why these decisions while we have some better ways. Look at this in following ways:---
(1). Indian soil has the capacity to feed double the population of India. If the government tries to give some attention to the farming of India, it can really Pay off. And surely contribute in making the country economically strong. At the same time farmers will also be happy and less suicides will be commited.
(2). Our government is wasting some money in the programs like MANREGA and sarv siksha abhiyaan. Its good that they implement these but what's the point in giving the money to unemployed workers. Instead they can try to create some opportunity for them to work. If relate to point one then many unemployed workers will get busy in farming and some problem will get solved.
In sarv siksha abhiyaan, government provides food, bycycle and many to the students. Good, but why to those who can afford it. Why don't they try to improve the education system and concentrate on giving education to everyone. They can provide other facilities to those who really need and can't afford it. Better provide books. They can save a lot of money this way which can be utilised at Other places.
(3). Today government is actually running from their responsibilities. They are turning their heads to privatisation. Good points?? Only they know. By privatisation they are only reducing their income. At the same time their goodwill is also getting effected.
(4). Today government have allowed FDI in retailing which will surely effect the small businesses. But will it really improve the Indian economy? A big question for Indians like me. If they really want this to happen (economic improvement) than why not the government themselves set some retail shops in different parts of the country. The plus point is if they set the retail shops themselves and sell everything at market price than the people will surely buy it and the profits will add in the economy of India.
But in FDI retailing, we have to buy it from them and surely they will not share the profits with our government. Than what's the point in sending our money to foreign.
(5). They (govt.) are going to sell unused land. Why don't they set some plants on those and manufacture the goods of daily uses with better quality. It will surely increase the emloyement opportunity and at the same time it will add in the economy of India.
(6). Instead of pulling each others leg, if the politicians and we try not to steal and get the best from the resources which we have than very soon we will be the best in the world.
(7). In every election, they waste a lot of money in many ways. And after election they throw all The expenses on 'janata'. They can reduce this bu they don't do. why will they while they are big people. They forget that they are just the servants..of countrymen.
Our government is actually running from the responsibilities. They don't want to take it. They don't have time. All time they try to pull opposit sides leg or make fool out of 'janata'. Trouble we people from increasing prices now and then. Actually they dont have to pay for anything so why will they care.
Indians just expect our government to work properly and honestly. We want them to take responsibility. If they do, I am sure we will not need anyone to survive. We have the capacity to stand on our own. We have to improve our system and we will be able to help others instead of taking help from them.
Jay hind.

We never stop believing friends.

Friendship, is a word on which we don't think much and believe instantly what friends say. We leave all our works and run to friends whenever they call us. We don't think of a reason in friendship. But sometimes we pay for this blind faith. Due to some selfish people we start doubting the friendship. One of my friends Chandan had to pay for this. Another one who ditched him was also one of our better friends.
Chandan works in a steel plant in goa. He is a happy fellow, and has built a very good reputation among the other staff members, even the boss used to impressed with him. One day Rajesh calls him and ask him to help finding a job. Chandan offers Rajesh to come to Goa and he will arrange everything. And Chandan talks to his boss and boss agrees eventually. But in last moments Rajesh backs to come to Goa. Anyway Chandan don't complain for this and get busy in his work.
Not far from that incident, the company goes bankrupt and all the employees loose their job. Chandan is not an exception. But he is brave and strong enough to recover this shock.
In the process to find a new job he comes to know that Rajesh is working somewhere in Mumbai. So he calls Rajesh and request to help which Rajesh promises to. Next day Rajesh calls and asks Chandan to come down to Mumbai. Chandan agrees as he believed in his friendship.
Next day Chandan takes a train to Mumbai. 4 o'clock is the sheduled arrival of the train so at noon he calls Rajesh just to tell him where he have reached. But no One picks up the call. He calls again but the same response. He don't mind and thinks that he may be busy and will call later. Half an hour passed but no return call. Chandan was getting restless as the arrival time was coming closer. He was wasting his battery but Rajesh was not receiving the call. Finally he reached the unknown place where he finds no Rajesh to receive him. He waited but it was all waste. Rajesh neither came nor gave him any  call or message.
Chandan eventually gets in a tough situation where he dont know what to do and where to go. He didn't know anyone in this new city. He couldn't get back as not any down train was available. He had to wait there on the station for 8 more hours to get the train back to Goa.
Juice is that Rajesh cheated. At least he must have come to receive his friend. Any way these all thing keep happening but we never stop believing the word friend. Yes, we do stop believing some person though.

Reservation: right or wrong??

Reservation policy in India. What do you think. It is right or wrong. If right then by what extent. If wrong than why we are supporting. I thought a lot over it. But i couldn't find the usefullness of this policy here. My thoughts may be wrong. But I don't see any profit for the mango people.
Today reservation system is every where. From admissions in school and colleges to jobs in any government sector. From elections to the number of members in parliament. Every where reservation have grown up its feet. Our government decides on the basis of cast not on the talent or ability. It effects directly to the upper cast and the quality of works done.
Our government don't get tired saying that in India every cast must be treated same, we are Indians and there is not any difference between any of its civilian. I agree upon this. But at the same time if every one is same and must be treated equally than why there is reservation for sc or st. On the time of declaring reservation they forget that every one is same? Aren't they doing dual behavior with the normal Indians. And all just because of their own profits not for the public. One side they sound Indians saying all is same to prove themselves better on the graph and on the other hand they keep doing stunts like reservation policy and all just to grab the vast vote bank of the lower cast or Muslims. They don't do this for the profit of the public but doing this they are actually creating distance between the uniqueness or Unity of India. Just they are following the path of English, divide and rule.
The public is also fool, they get happy with such declarations without even thinking the real effect of these kind of declarations. We Indians are in loss at the end of the day.
We are Indians and every Indian must get the equal opportunity without any differences. We don't need any reservation. We have talent and ability to prove ourselves at any level. These kind of actios from government distract us. And the government must remember this, they can't fool us always with these kind of stunts. No one can break our unity. They don't make us but we do. We create government and they must not forget this.
We are one country, one cast and thats humanity, one language and one religion that's too humanity. Jay hind Jay Bharat.

Hindi: ek sawaal??

Sabse Pehle maafi chahta hu ke main devnagri lipi ka upyog kisi kaaran wash nahi kar paas raha hu.
Aaj hinDi diwas hai. Mere man me wo ek sawal fir se uth khara  hua hai ke kya Hindi sirf kehne ke liye hamari rashtriya bhasa hai? Kya hum Hindi ko sirf Hindi diwas pe hi yaad karenge jaise ki use shradhanjali de rahe ho? Kya Hindi itihaas ke panno me dab ke reh jaaegi? Kya sach me hamari apni Hindi kuchh Dino kI mehmaan hai? Jaisa mahaul banta jaa raha hai us se to saari baatei sach hoti dikh rahi hain mujhe. Angreji ke dhun me hamari bhasa kahin gum si hui jaa rahi hai.
Aaj chahe tabka Chhota ho ya Bada, har koi chahta hai ke unke bachche English medium school Me padhe. Is se koi aapakta nahI hau lekin dard tab hota haI jab log ek vishay Hindi ko nazarandaaz kar dete hain. Hindi naa aata ho koi baat nau lekin Angreji aani chahye. Kuchh log ghar se bahar nikalte hi Hindi ko chhor Angreji ka daaman thaam lete hain. Aakhir Kyun? Kyun unhei sharam si aati hai apni bhasa bolte hue. Kuchh log Jo Hindi ko tarzeeh dete hain unhei heen bhawana ke saath kyu dekha jaata hai. Hindi na bola ho koi paap kar diya ho. Angreji ko Kyun ek status symbol ke roop me dekha jaata hai. Mujhe to aaj tak samajh nahi aaya ke hum dusro ke kapre pehen itna khus kyu hote hain.
Vidyalayo aur mahavidyalayi me pabandI si laga Di gayi hai Hindi bolne par. Sansad me Angreji bhasa boli jaati hai. Yahan tak ki humare uchch aur sarvochch nyayalayo Me dalilei tak firangiyo ke andaaz me diye jaate hain. Main sochta hu to gussa v aata hai aur hasi bhi. Fir Khud pe sharam si aa jaati hai aur sar jhuk jaata hai.
Kya humari bhasa firangi bolted hain? Kya koi aur desh apni bhasa chhod kar koi aur bhasa apnata hai. To fir hum Kyun aisa kar rahe hain. Main ye nahi kehta Angreji tyag karo lekin hindi ko Kyun kachra samajh rahe ho. Angreji antarrashtriya bhasa hai. Humei aani chahye aur jarurat padne par Uska upyog bhi Karna aavashyak hai. Kintu apni bhasa ka apmaan kahan tak sahi hai.
Hindi hindustaan ki bhasa hai aur Humei uspe na sirf garv hona chahye balki use bolne me bhi fakhra mehsus Karna chahye. Hindi bhasiyo ko samman ki nazar se dekhna chahye. Hindi humari hai aur hum Hindi ke hain. Humara kartavya hai ise sambhal ke rakhna chahye. Ise banaye rakhna hai. Main ummeed karta hu k Hindi ki dasa badlegi aur fir se hum apni bhasa ko Apna lengey.
Jay hind. Jay Hindi.

Broken smiles.

<p>6 a.m. Get up from bed and get ready for the school.<br>
7 a.m. To 1p.m school.<br>
1:30 to 3 p.m. Tution class.<br>
3 p.m to 5 p.m. Music class or sports class.<br>
5: 30 to 7:30 p.m. Another Tution class. <br>
8 to 10 p.m. Study.<br>
10:30 go to bed.<br>
Ten years ago it was really an easy and stressless life for students especially childrens. They used to enjoy their life. They used to enjoy every bit what they used to do. Their study too. And still they used to do well in each department. Most importantly they were smiling kids. <br>
But now, its a different story altogether. The upper shedule is of a ten years old boy of fifth standard. Always he is busy with his shedule. I don't remember his voice as he never speak. Never smile. I doubt he knows how to smile or not. He is not happy as he is not enjoying anything. How can he be happy? I mean such a pressure. How can a ten year old boy hold such a pressure. <br>
He is trying his best but at the end nothing goes his way. At the end he has to get scolding from his parents. If someone does well then is it right for the cost of smile and life's happiness. <br>
Today parents push a child in the competition even before s/he opens the eyes for the first time in the world. Competition, competition and competition. Every parent want their child in the first row. Everyone want their child to be Einstein or tendulkar. But at the same time they forget that parents of these greats didn't force them for anything. <br>
I know competition is there. But in these we are losing the smile. The smile which used to be the refreshing element in our life. The smile for which we could do anything in the world. Now its hard to find such smile. Somewhere these competetive world is winning over all important smile.
Do we have any right to do this? No way, I mean how can we do this. But the truth is we are doing this. We are getting the smile away from our childs. For me happiness comes first. The smile comes first no matter I get it after losing or winning. I can be happy without a four wheeler but if my younger ones are having a stressfull life I can't be happy.
I need that smile back on the cute faces. Hate the competetion which breaks the smile.

Duality of humans

Well, we are humans. The most wonderful creation of god. The most clever animal ever. We have emotions as not other animal have this quality. But at the same time humans have the most complecated thinking too. Humans are dual in nature. Humans think dual in nature. I have not just seen it but I have observed it too. We can see it in our daily life. Around us there we can see many example.
Assume you are having a quarrel with some one. And you say that you belong to a good family and you don't want a war. Just see the reaction from the other side. It can be like, I have more deciplined family than you. Or, I too don't have time to quarrel with you. Or, what do you think I am a villain. Or something like to prove he is better than you.
Now say just the opposite. Like you say " you know who I am. I can kidnapp you and you will not eveb know it. I can destroy you in no time". Now see the reaction. He will try to prove he is a superior villain than you. Its true and its human nature

Take another example. Father of a girl at the time of her marriage. He wants her daughter to be married in a high society family. He wants to give the less dowry. Wants the boy to be in control of his daughter. And many more comfort for the daughter. At the same time. Same father at the time of his son's marriage. He demand the hIghest dowry no matter how good or bad the son is. He never want to accept a girl from the low society. If his son gives more attention to his wife, they dont like it and starts insulting both the son and the daughter in law. Many more opposite things happens. No matter how much a boy tease the girls he don't like to his daughter to be teased. Great. Many more such things we can see around. Many more examples which show that we are dual in nature. We respond differently according to our own convenience at the same situation. We know it but always ignore. Just because we are selfish. We always see the profitables just for us. We love the same thing if its for us and hate it the most if its not for us. Someone is awesome if he helps us and the worst if he don't. We judge people according to our need, not to his/her ability. We expect to get help in need and don't want to help if someone is in problem. We want our friends to be always with us but at the same time don't even give him/her a call if s/he is far away. Or don't even ask about his health. We always think he will call but don't have time to dial. We are humans. We learn from mistakes. But sometimes ignore it too. Knowing all we don't want to change it. We can never change I. Fact. Humans will always be dual. If it changes it will be best thing which can happen. Hope it will.

Life is not a race

“Life is a race, if you will not run fast….you will be like a broken andaa” now a day every one seems to follow this rule to live their life. According to them, this is the only rule one should follow in life to get success. And yes, somehow they manage to get success, whatever they had aimed. But still they have to keep their feet in the race to survive. Means that race never get over.

But are they happy doing all this, achieving so much in life? Aren’t they missing the all important things in life while running the race? Is life really meant to follow some bloody rules to achieve some shit success? Are we enjoying our success? Is the feeling same when we had bunk our classes in school or colleges and now when we get a promotion? Is life meant to live like this where there is no joy and no happiness? There are a lot of question that should be asked to us. But we think that these questions have no meaning, this is totally nonsense. Only we say that life is not a joke with all the seriousness of the world.

Life is a gift, where no one knows that how much time we have. Life is not about seriousness. It’s not about that we have to win a race and be ahead of many. But it’s about how much we are enjoying our moments. It’s about how much we are happy. One should enjoy each and every moment they have. Do everything that you want so that at the end you don’t have to regret that you have missed all the things that you could not have.

If doing nonsense gives you some moments of joy then never stop yourself doing that. this has more sense then doing some sense which gives you nothing other then stress. 

We have a very short period of time so make friends, make relations, have fun in whatever ways you can, be with your family and enjoy. Let the surrounding feel your existence and enjoy your important existence.

The world is full of enjoyment. We just have to find them. There is everything funny around which makes us smile; we just have to change our vision to look at the things. Everything is beautiful; we just have to look at them with love. There is joke behind everything over which you can laugh; we just have to listen.

Achieving whatever you have aimed does not make a life successful, it’s about how much you have enjoyed.

So, bunk classes, go around with friends, make relations, fall in love, feel the moment, love people, be happy and make other happy. Live your life in moments, not in time. Then we will feel that life is beautiful.

IS LOVE REALLY BLIND???????

Is love really blind? This question left me thinking but still I don’t have an answer. Think of some examples.. When a 16 year girl falls in love with a 32 year boy then people say that see love is blind. When a 40 year lady falls in love with a 24 year boy den some say “love is blind”. If a person falls for a handicapped den also people say love is blind. If a rich girl falls for a poor or vice versa then d parents says d same. And lastly a couple which doesn’t fall in above mentioned category then also the same thing that love is blind. Some times due to their unmatched height or complexion or any other things. Ultimately each and every time some one falls for other then blame goes to love that love is blind. Bt why, where d blindness come in to the picture...if two people are in love then how can love be blind...people think from there mind and blames love...but at d same time why do they forget that in love mind doesn’t take part...and if some1 loves a person with mind then how can that be love.. love doesn’t see d people but d hearts...Love always see from the heart and thinks from the heart...then how can be love blind... sometime or the other eyes can b wrong but you cant change wrong into right from eyes. But heart always sees the reality. If some time it got wrong then it has the power to change wrong into right with love. Love has the power to change a criminal into a mango people, love can change two biggest enemies into best friends... Love can even give a dying person some more days to live...then how can love be blind...it can never be...impact love can be the reason to live for a people or whole world.

When a parent forces his child to marry an unknown person or a person which is not perfect for him or her, that is real blindness. Look around you will find many examples. When a parent shows a wrong path to his child that is a real blindness. When a father forces to do some 1 other then his or her interest, that is the real blindness... But people don’t say that they are blind. But blames love each and every time they get a chance.

 Love exists in many forms here and each and every form is pure like anything and innocent like a new born baby. Yes, there are some people who interprets love in wrong but where there is true love that can never change....the distance or d closeness can never change true love...if does so then that can never be true love....its a feeling of heart that can never b destroyed...as time passes it get more stronger...peoples eye grows and at some point of time but love grows and get more stronger... In love some1 don’t see his or her own happiness.. Every time it tries to make happy others...den how can it b blind... It makes life easier then how can it be blind... It makes piece in d world den how can it b blind... Its greater then all the feelings ... Its not the thing that can be sold or brought... It makes the relations stronger... If there is not love in any relation, the relationship cant go on whatever the relation is may be parents child, brother sisters, or any other type of relations... 
Love is truth., but still I don’t understand why people say love is blind...
We should respect each and every type of love coz it makes life beautiful and more beautiful.

 So live and love. And never say that love is blind....

Where is hindi going.....

Where is “Hindi”? This is really a very big question today. Have it lost its place of most spoken language in India or the people don’t know the importance of our national language. It’s not like that we should not know or use other language but at the same time we should also not ignore our own language which is HINDI.

I personally know some people who does not know Hindi but other languages and also don’t feel that they should know it. Some people don’t even respect it. All they care for is English. People start teaching their child English from the age of 4 – 6 but don’t even care that they are learning their national language or not. Our social life has got divided according to the people’s  spoken language now. If someone don’t know English or prefer to speak Hindi then the English spoken people ( like to call them standard people) say them low standard or people with no class.  But I don’t think that speaking our own language other then others is having no class. Its necessary to know English but one should use that only when it is needed, not everywhere to show off. Visit any book store or outlet and look for some Hindi books. Either you will not get it or you will find a self in some corner of the shop, but if you will look around you will find all the self full of the books written in English and some other languages. Once there was writers like Munsi Premchand , Sarat Chandra chattopadhyay and others  who gave so much to Hindi but today no one knows a single writers name who writes In Hindi. Its not like we have not enough talent, but either they are afraid of writing due to the situation or if some writes they don’t reach to the people. I don’t understand this. Do the people of England, America or other countries learn our language or if they do so, do they use it every time. Then why should we do?

    Hindi is gone like a prisoner in his own house. Who is responsible for this? It’s a big question. But we should do whatever we can do for improving the situation. After all it’s our culture and we should protect it…..!

    हमारी  राष्ट्रभाषा,हमारी संस्कृति धीरे धीरे कहीं गुम होती जा रही है.

Now its our responsibility to protect and fight for this…….

जय हिन्द, जय हिन्दी………….