Life is not a race

“Life is a race, if you will not run fast….you will be like a broken andaa” now a day every one seems to follow this rule to live their life. According to them, this is the only rule one should follow in life to get success. And yes, somehow they manage to get success, whatever they had aimed. But still they have to keep their feet in the race to survive. Means that race never get over.

But are they happy doing all this, achieving so much in life? Aren’t they missing the all important things in life while running the race? Is life really meant to follow some bloody rules to achieve some shit success? Are we enjoying our success? Is the feeling same when we had bunk our classes in school or colleges and now when we get a promotion? Is life meant to live like this where there is no joy and no happiness? There are a lot of question that should be asked to us. But we think that these questions have no meaning, this is totally nonsense. Only we say that life is not a joke with all the seriousness of the world.

Life is a gift, where no one knows that how much time we have. Life is not about seriousness. It’s not about that we have to win a race and be ahead of many. But it’s about how much we are enjoying our moments. It’s about how much we are happy. One should enjoy each and every moment they have. Do everything that you want so that at the end you don’t have to regret that you have missed all the things that you could not have.

If doing nonsense gives you some moments of joy then never stop yourself doing that. this has more sense then doing some sense which gives you nothing other then stress. 

We have a very short period of time so make friends, make relations, have fun in whatever ways you can, be with your family and enjoy. Let the surrounding feel your existence and enjoy your important existence.

The world is full of enjoyment. We just have to find them. There is everything funny around which makes us smile; we just have to change our vision to look at the things. Everything is beautiful; we just have to look at them with love. There is joke behind everything over which you can laugh; we just have to listen.

Achieving whatever you have aimed does not make a life successful, it’s about how much you have enjoyed.

So, bunk classes, go around with friends, make relations, fall in love, feel the moment, love people, be happy and make other happy. Live your life in moments, not in time. Then we will feel that life is beautiful.

MIS-TAKEN, WORST ONE...

   Oh god! What a big mistake I did. An unexpected one. No one can ever expect that type of mistake from me, even I can’t expect the same from myself, but I made.

   This is not that I don’t do mistakes, but as a human being I also do. And I am officially a person who makes a lot of mistakes, as I have done before. But this was a different one, which accidentally I did.

   28^th august, 2011, I woke up on my time. I did my all thing as per my boring routine. In the evening I went to meet one of my best my friend, who was going to his native for puja’s. she told me to see her off to airport, which I agreed. As her flight was on 29^th September, morning 5:15, so we left her place at night 11:30 for the airport.

   When officially the date was changing from 28^th to 29^th, we were in taxi. And as usual we didn’t notice that day change, which we should have. We reached the airport by 00:30. We had a lot of time to pass. So we did a lot of thing like walking all over the airport, staring at the beautiful cabin crews and passing comment on them, other then an important thing.

   On the other side two of my friends were eagerly waiting for our call, and things got worst when no one of us did.

   Actually, 29^th September is the date when two of my best friends Roan and Ashka made their unofficial presence together in the world. And it’s been four years. We all were expected to call her and wish, but eventually all of us forgot the importance of the date. The all important unofficial anniversary of the only couple of our group.

   We passed our night doing all bullshit and I got back to my place after seeing off Aashiya. By 12:30 P.M I got a call from Ashka for some important stuff and things got worst when I still didn’t notice the importance of the day.

   On 27^th September, I did remember all the things, and I had a plan to surprise them by my own way as they were about 1200 km away from me. But after that I forgot all the things.

   And on 30^th September, 10:15 p.m, I again got a call from Ashka. This was it was a call for reminding me my mistake and showing their anger which was genuine. And I can understand that when you expect something from the most important people around for you, and they don’t fulfill that, then how it feels. “Do you remember what the date was yesterday? I will never talk to you all again.”  These were the exact words after I received the call and then she just ended the call without waiting for my response. And then I realized that what a big mistake I have done. Late I got to know that my all friends did the same mistake.

   I called her back. She didn’t respond. I called again, again and again. I called her at least 30 times, but the result was the same, “the customer you are trying to reach is currently busy, try later”

   I know that she can’t be angry with us for a long time but still it’s very important to make the things right. I am trying for that, hoping that I will short that out.

   Waiting for the time when again everything will go normal and we all will be forgiven.

   One last thing, “Never break some one’s expectations if he or she is one of the most people around you, it hurts more then anything.”